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Hi Judy, I have a question about routine and hope you can give me your kind advice. My baby is now 8 weeks old and has been following the feeding schedule as advised in your book (almost successfully). During the day, I can manage to feed him every 3-4 hours, depending on the day. But I found it hard to keep the routine in the last two feeds. I tried to keep him awake as long as possible after the feed at 7pm but he becomes really tired, say around 9-ish. It is still two hours away from the last feed and also I am trying to bath him before the last feed (to incorporate bath into bedtime). By the time I managed to bath him around 10.30pm and feed him at 11pm, he would be so tired and sleepy that he would fall asleep straight away and not having enough milk before the long night sleep. Should I bath him after the feed at 7pm (will make sure he has been burped and is not full), let him sleep if he is tired and wake him up around 11pm for the feed? Or, should I let him sleep after the 7pm feed and wake him around around 11pm for bath (which I think it is too late for bath) and then feed? Thanks for your advice in advance.
奐均您好: 有幸能在近幾天閱讀到你寫的沒有不受教的孩子,也深感認同,只是我有疑問的是,我的兩個兒子目前一個10歲,一個8歲,還適用打的方式來處罰他們嗎?這會不會有損於他們的自尊,在尚未看你的書之前,在管教孩子方面的確是很受挫的,所以在近三個月,因為他們比較大了,也比較能表達自己哪些地方做的好不好,所以我和我先生就決定用一本小筆記本,請他們當天晚上檢視自己之優劣處,並把它寫下來,以便他們決定自己所玩的時間,例如吃飯時能專心吃就有20分鐘可玩,反之則減少玩的時間,雖然實施至今,是小有改變,但仍然常常會有讓我爆跳如雷的時候,可能就如你所講的,態度不夠堅定,所以每次同一件事總要反覆講很多次,再加上必須等到當天晚上再檢討一天的行為,似乎也不夠立即,所以我總覺得效果不大,每天還是在說著重覆的事,提醒一樣的事,但孩子總還是不能自律,真是傷透腦筋,所以請教您,這年紀的孩子適合用打的嗎?懇請回覆,謝謝!
dear judy, i read your book and was determined to take the approach few days before i gave birth. Unfortunately, we have been struggling everyday over the past 10 months. My baby still cry whenever we put her to bed now and then. Only she doesn't cry so hard now in comparison to the very beginning we just started this. She may cry for like over 10 mins and then fell to sleep. My husband and I thought this is already good enough even we think ourselves have succeeded. Two weeks ago, things were changed. My baby has been crying her eyes out when we put her to bed and for the worst, she wakes up in the middle of nights and cries out. In the begining, I thought she is in the period that needs more attention and comfort. One night, i put her to bed in 1 and half hour after she had her last meal of the day. I hugged her after she cried and then she throw up all her meal out of stomach. I guess this is because she's crying too hard??
In the fear of she might throw up again. Since then, I hugged her for like 3 mins and put her to bed . She would have fallen to sleep right away. After few days, she cried even harder and hardly fell sleep.
I have a fear that this will go on forever. Could you tell me how to do about this? I'm so confused and worried. Besides, she eats four times a day. For her first meal, i only gave her formula (approx. 180cc~200cc). and the rest of the meals are non staple food. For her last meal of the day, I would gave her 180cc formula 1 hour after she finish her food. (tried to gave her formula right after her food, but she only can have a little so now gave her the formula one hour after the food). For each of the meals, they are estimated approx. 240~260cc. I need your suggest to see if there's anything wrong with this? Your reply will be appreciated. Thank you so much!
奐均你好, 聽到百歲醫生過世, 真的很令人難過, 我原本想跟你要百歲醫生的電話或是信箱, 想問百歲醫生依些問題
我懷疑我的寶寶有腸道的問題 我的寶寶 1個多月大時照著你書中的做法, 很輕鬆的就讓我寶寶睡過夜了(但沒趴睡)
現在她六個月大, 每天奶量頂多 400 上下, 每天有三餐吃食物尼, 早晚只喝奶, 每次大概能吃兩匙米精加一兩匙的食物尼,
但我寶寶不愛甜食物尼 每次奶量也少得可憐, 常常噁氣時就 吐光光 , 我說的是常常,大概每兩天最少一次,(我從4個月開始給她嚐試吃米精)
他只肯吃純米精, 加入其他的食物都不吃, 還會吐光, 只有純米精會吃光 最近發現她喜歡吃hipp的馬鈴薯加南瓜食物尼,
其他東西還是都不吃, 包含稀飯, 地瓜, 蘋果, 總之只要是有一點甜味的他都不吃, 不然就是吐光光
你覺得這樣的情況, 是不是要去大醫院做仔細檢查??