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        <description><![CDATA[退而不休...同學們! 上課了!]]></description>
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            <title><![CDATA[Storm rising]]></title>
            <link><![CDATA[http://tw.myblog.yahoo.com/fei-fan/article?mid=1727]]></link>
            <description><![CDATA[<p>九月十六日一大早打開旅館中的電視, 無論 CNN, CNBC, 或是 Bloomberg, 所報的新聞統統集中在 Lehman Brothers 倒閉的消息, 畫面帶到它各地辦公室的職員身上, 抱頭沉思, 打包行囊, 滿臉狐疑的離開豪華辦公大樓, 在在顯示出美國第四大投資銀行的垮台是多麼叫人難以置信!</p>
<p>早餐時, 我瞄了幾份報紙, 經濟的因素我一知半解, 但是對於人性卻不陌生, 其中一篇登在 Financial Times 上的文章頗能引起共鳴. 本文的標題是 : Exodus (大批離去, 聖經上的出埃及記) of employees told to &#39;move on&#39;, 內容包括員工的各種反應, 節錄幾段與各位分享.</p>
<p>*&quot;It&#39;s over,&quot; announced Christian Meissner to a morning staff gathering (會議) just a week after appointed (被認命) to run (營運) Lehman Brothers in Europe. He told the staff to look for new work and &quot;move on&quot;.</p>
<p>*Some staff maintained they were soldiering on (奮鬥到底) until their bosses told them to stop.</p>
<p>*Others were more actively seeking employment. Recruiters (招募人才的人) were stationed (被安置在) at Canary Wharf coffee shops to collect curriculum vitae (履歷, 簡歷).</p>
<p>*Some staff said they had been banned from (被禁止) sending e-mails, adding that Blackberries and mobiles no longer worked.</p>
<p>*&quot;Thank God, just thank God this is not as bad as Lehman Brothers,&quot; said one from Merrill Lynch&#39;s offices. But another said : &quot;We were next on the chopping board (切菜板) anyway, weren&#39;t we?&quot;</p>
<p>昨晚美國 700 billion 的方案觸礁導致股市狂瀉, 今天亞洲股市也受波及, 更印證了 Herald Tribune (先鋒論壇報) 上的一句話 : But for the rest of the financial world, the dire (可怕的, 悲慘的) consequences of&nbsp; Lehman&#39;s failure are just beginning.</p>]]></description>
            <pubDate>Tue, 30 Sep 2008 15:44:34 CST</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Liquidity]]></title>
            <link><![CDATA[http://tw.myblog.yahoo.com/fei-fan/article?mid=1725]]></link>
            <description><![CDATA[<p><font color="#b27c51">Cash is King. In this turmoil [混亂]&nbsp;of our current financial crisis, cash, with no doubt, is a safe haven [避風港] for every investor (given that where you store your cash doesn&#39;t go bankrupt, of course). Yet, our economy, for the past two decades or so, have relied and expanded so much upon cash injection [經濟學上經濟體系的運轉主要的就是需要不斷流動的注入,聽不懂可以看看</font><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Circular_flow"><font color="#b27c51">Circular flow of income</font></a><font color="#b27c51">], would we still be able to function if we stop pumping through more cash? This is probably the question that the US House of Representatives still face after they have rejected the $US700 billion bailout plan[七千億金融紓困案]. <br><br>To this day, I still find it hard to believe the extent to which our economy have allowed the credit monster to grow. I blame my innocence on the fact that I am Chinese at heart. Throughout our footprints over five millennia [五千年], we, Chinese, have never grasped the concept of banking. Banks have come from Europe, have prospered in America, and even the Indians have developed banking; but we, Chinese, never created or manifested this notion of a banking system. However, as we trend towards globalisation, it is inevitable that we are involved in this worldwide event. <br>[Wikipedia上銀行的解釋是A bank is a financial institution whose primary activity is to act as a payment agent for customers and to borrow and lend money.中國人的經濟體系五千多年來似乎都沒有真正的發展出銀行型態的組織機構,即使有發行銀票也有錢莊這類的金融概念,但是對於借貸以玆投資新興經濟的理念幾乎不存在.]<br><br>What angle do we then take to face the current market? A better question yet, do we still have faith in the financial system to dump hundreds of billions of dollars to our comrade in the credit market? The double deficits [雙赤字] that the US have endured for so long certainly paint a huge question mark across faith. <br><br>To fuel the bailout plan, the US government needs to borrow. The rest of us have happily lent to the Americans through bonds, funds, equities and various kind of investments. Now, do you still want to lend $US700 billion or <em>more</em> to them? If not, the biggest economy of our time would face serious liquidity issue.&nbsp;Liquidity certainly&nbsp;poses more concerns on this economy than any other, given that it has been fed&nbsp;heavily with credit for consumption&nbsp;&amp; expenditure.&nbsp;The fear lies in the fact that when a titan falls, he does not fall alone. <br>[資金流動性&amp;週轉難易度是目前讓許多借貸投資銀行機構愁眉深鎖的主因之一.畢竟人花錢還錢只要是一手出另一手還有進就不大會擔心.但對於美國人依賴信用借貸成性,這次的緊縮可能他們覺得最苦吧~畢竟由簡入奢易由奢入簡難]<br><br><br>- by Anita<br><br>上網查證資料幫這篇做註解的時候發現,台灣新聞網站有點沒效率.美澳的新聞網站今天的頭條早就是&quot;Bailout Fails&quot;了,台灣Yahoo新聞還是慢一天.希望台灣媒體人腳步快點跟上.</font></p>]]></description>
            <pubDate>Tue, 30 Sep 2008 07:15:19 CST</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[他鄉逢知己]]></title>
            <link><![CDATA[http://tw.myblog.yahoo.com/fei-fan/article?mid=1721]]></link>
            <description><![CDATA[<p>九月十二日我們離開威尼斯, 搭機前往日內瓦, 晚上六點半左右與朋友有約. 這位友人幾年前與先生有業務上往來, 但是, 和我偶而相逢竟成莫逆, 她的法籍先生一年半前退休, 兩人住在日內瓦, 每每約定相見都因故無法實現, 這次總算如願聚首.</p>
<p>她出生於中國大陸, 父母皆是大學教授, 成績優異精通英法和中文, 出國留學後, 隨即受聘於歐洲公司, 初次與她見面時, 覺得她博學謙遜, 又有著和我類似的人生態度, 去年她與兒子見面, 更讓川兒事後屢屢提及 &quot;書香門第當如是乎&quot;.</p>
<p>約定時間到來, 我們雖 &quot;身在異鄉為異客&quot;, 卻有好友熱誠迎接, 絲毫不覺戶外十度以下的異常低溫, 她的先生開車載我們越過邊境, 進入法國鄉間的一作古堡, 車程不到半小時, 此時落日餘暉仍在, 站在古堡外花園中, 居高臨下眺望千里秋色, 真是心曠神怡!</p>
<p>該座古堡現在是極具名聲的法國傳統餐廳, 美食美酒賓主盡歡, 席間丈夫英文雖不流暢卻能和男主人侃侃而談, 尤其男主人聲稱在金融界工作了一輩子, 此次金融危機是百年最大風暴, 並預測 Lehman Brothers 無法度過難關.</p>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 26 Sep 2008 16:19:26 CST</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Dream home]]></title>
            <link><![CDATA[http://tw.myblog.yahoo.com/fei-fan/article?mid=1712]]></link>
            <description><![CDATA[<p>丈夫購買了一塊 &quot;GENE20國際建築博覽會&quot; 的建地, 而此一建案受邀參加 &quot;威尼斯建築雙年展&quot;, 我們也有機會參與此一盛會.</p>
<p>當天展覽會場設在昔日的軍火庫, 離我門下褟的旅館有點兒距離,&nbsp;畢竟台灣缺乏在地的資訊,&nbsp;主人並未安排唯一的交通工具--- 船,&nbsp;好在我不顧形象臨時決定穿著球鞋牛仔褲, 在頂著大太陽三十幾度的高溫下步行二三十分鐘後, 一頭鑽入會場頓時有 &quot;登頂&quot; 成功的解脫!</p>
<p>十幾位本土和國際的建築師陸續到場, 在簡單隆重的開幕儀式後, 我把握機會和建築師本人交談, 聽聽他們獨到的見解. 其實, 我只是對知識有興趣, 並非想對丈夫購進的土地建言, 更沒有所謂 &quot;dream home&quot; 的理想. 丈夫每每談及柬埔寨的高腳屋和蘇州庭園, 我都隨聲附和, 心中卻老想著父親所說過的話 : 家人所在處, 天涯何處不為家?</p>
<p>我和丈夫在威尼斯只待了兩天, 團中成員僅於認識而已, 但是仍覺得台灣人缺乏了些國際觀和體察他國文化的能力, 其中又以女性為勝. 不知道是不是整體社會對女子的要求又重回八股 --- parents, beauty, husband, and children, 使台灣女性只顧表面功夫忘記了充實自我!?</p>]]></description>
            <pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2008 16:03:02 CST</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[A tourist in my own life]]></title>
            <link><![CDATA[http://tw.myblog.yahoo.com/fei-fan/article?mid=1710]]></link>
            <description><![CDATA[<p>九月九日和丈夫搭機去歐洲, 前一晚丈夫忙於出國前瑣事, 我則和好友赴宴, 宴會雖然炫麗奢華, 美食美酒猶在夢中般地不真實, 只記得兩個人坦承對話, 有時朗聲大笑, 有時無限唏噓. 看到自己部落格上的各種回應, 心中除了感激還是感激, 家人盡知我既無先知之明, 又無過人聰慧, 有的只是盡心盡力而已, 此一 &quot;美德&quot; 就讓我人生 &quot;花團錦簇&quot;, 驚奇不斷.</p>
<p>回頭重拾粉筆真的不可能! 倒是要為女兒不甚禮貌的回應致歉, 她從小個性固執強悍, 不知因此受了多少責罰, 我退休後, 母女相處漸入佳境, 她處處呵護照顧, 雖然口頭上她說是 : 受人 (她爸爸) 之託忠人之事, 不過我們的確分享生活上的點點滴滴, 所以她深知丈夫現在給我的生活充實平靜, 除了能看盡人生百態更能和家人靠近, 忙碌的教學生涯都已成過往.</p>
<p>此番歐洲行豐富有趣, 希望和各位分享.</p>]]></description>
            <pubDate>Tue, 23 Sep 2008 20:44:48 CST</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[謝謝...but...]]></title>
            <link><![CDATA[http://tw.myblog.yahoo.com/fei-fan/article?mid=1693]]></link>
            <description><![CDATA[<p><font color="#b27c51">最近有很多老學生或慕名的學生來參觀我娘的部落格...<br>我想我娘他很開心也很願意聽聽學生們的心聲或回答問題...<br>畢竟二三十年來他都心繫於教學...<br>即使身在補教界難免是為了$$...<br>但是為人師表束修以上...而且有用心聽過我娘課的人應該都可以感受的到...<br>他是認真把所學&amp;倫理道德&amp;處事態度傳播給學生...<br>跟他平常教給我的傻弟&amp;我的基本道理完全一樣...<br>當然學生沒辦法&quot;享受&quot;他無時不刻耳提面命的叨擾...<br>(trust me...you would pay to NOT hear her sometimes if you were us@_@|||)<br>而現在的台灣高中生也無法再感受到我娘領著一班幾百個人管教最後一排附中男生吃不吃豆干的震撼力...<br>對於大家希望我娘返回補教界的隻言片語...<br>我想不管是開玩笑還是懇請他出山...<br>雖然我娘沒說...但是他一定是很感動的...<br>當老師能有這麼多的學生願意回鍋又有人願意聽他老太太嘮嘮叨叨我想普天之下沒幾人吧~<br>但是...金盆洗手就是金盆洗手了...<br>更何況...與其找我娘出山...<br>怎麼大家不想想現在的老師可以再加把勁呢??<br>或是...現在的台灣學生or家長可以換個角度來學習呢??<br>畢竟時代不一樣了...<br>體罰要上報挨罵是心靈創傷...<br>好老師很多...不過現在一個好老師的定義是什麼??<br>有些老師愛作秀有些老師長的帥...<br>不管這些老師教的怎麼樣...但是他們多多少少也是迎合現在學生的口味吧...<br>我想老師可以塑造學生...可是學生也可以塑造老師...是互相的...<br>我娘當初並沒有拿著槍指著建中北一女學生們的頭叫他們來上課...<br>也沒有因為算升學率考不上台大就不教...<br>是學生自己願意學習自己來上課的...到後來連公車站廣告都不用登...<br>所以好的老師是想學的學生可以找到的...<br>當然來找我娘是種褒獎沒話說...<br>不過金盆洗手就是金盆洗手了...<br>請大家接受事實...<br>返回補教界這種話大家談笑間開開玩笑OK...我娘聽了應該也偷偷開心...<br><br><br><br>- by Anita</font></p>]]></description>
            <pubDate>Tue, 09 Sep 2008 07:43:23 CST</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Echo on the Marina]]></title>
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            <description><![CDATA[<p><font color="#385376">我娘&amp;弟前幾個禮拜來雪梨打擾我清修,大啖海鮮和牛,十分叨擾.<br>上禮拜好不容易兩個人終於走了,剛好錯過我們鄰居上週末請我到他們的船上過週末(嘿嘿嘿~).<br><br>禮拜五晚上我還在雪梨歌劇院聽音樂會,咱們愛緊張的鄰居海倫太太就狂摳我說明天要早半個小時出門.這是我第一次跟鄰居們約好在船上過夜,當然也不想給人家添麻煩,早早七八點我就帶著烤好的餅乾brownie蹲在門口等著出門.海倫太太果然很準時的來敲門.</font></p>
<p><img src="http://tw.blog.yahoo.com/photo/photo.php?id=iEb7x7yRAg6arpAdAkezufEM.p2D&amp;photo=tn_F23_20080902102555285.jpg"/><br><font color="#347d7e">葡萄柚果醬口味</font><br><img src="http://tw.blog.yahoo.com/photo/photo.php?id=iEb7x7yRAg6arpAdAkezufEM.p2D&amp;photo=tn_F23_20080902102557340.jpg"/><br><font color="#347d7e">花生醬口味</font><br><img src="http://tw.blog.yahoo.com/photo/photo.php?id=iEb7x7yRAg6arpAdAkezufEM.p2D&amp;photo=tn_F23_20080902102558740.jpg"/><br><font color="#347d7e">裝好放罐子裡...</font><br><br><font color="#385376">船就停泊在我們住家樓下,還滿方便的.邊上船海倫的先生偉恩北北還邊指隔壁的船說那就是妮可基嫚的船,果然比較大艘.一出港過了雪梨大橋,海倫太太就搬出了香檳(我們家離歌劇院&amp;大橋不管是走路還是乘船都不超過15分鐘吧~@_@|||),我也就很配合的從早上九點多開始牛飲.<br><br>行船大概二十分鐘到了個小小的港灣,四周綠蔭圍繞停泊著少少幾艘船,一點都感覺不出來我們在雪梨市中心附近,我們也找了個點把船停好,等另外兩家鄰居把船開來.我光著腳在船上跑來跑去東摸西搞準備食物順便把附在船上的小汽艇放出來.好不容易等到黑先生&amp;黑太太也把船停好,我跟偉恩北北帶著一手啤酒&amp;釣魚用具就開著小汽艇去他們船上把黑北北給綁架走了,留黑太太&amp;海倫太太準備晚餐.<br><br>天空一望無際,樹叢中隱隱約約可以聽到郊遊步行的人聲,水面清澈平靜,我們搖搖晃晃的垂著釣竿聊天.雖然被吃掉了好多隻小蝦子的餌(說是小蝦子其實也有小指頭那麼大,要是拿來炒個青辣椒+豆干配啤酒應該還不賴^0^),我釣到一隻銀的啵亮的小魚還有一隻兩頰氣鼓鼓好可愛的小河豚.據我們在這熟識的壽司師傅</font><a href="http://www.yoshii.com.au/"><font color="#385376">吉井隆一</font></a><font color="#385376">桑說他在澳洲海域還沒找到能吃的河豚.黑北北也釣到隻是可以吃的小魚,不過都小的可憐,三隻都被我們放生了.後來啤酒喝的差不多,我們就回船上.<br><br>好在晚餐不用靠咱們三個半吊子漁人獵食,早就在出發前去魚市場買好了生魚片龍蝦生蠔鮭魚子.另外一戶光頭吉伯北北&amp;他的金髮美女女友也停好了船.開好紅酒白酒七個人圍繞在餐桌旁邊吃邊看雪梨天鵝對布里斯本獅開賽.好在我們大贏,海倫太太的心情也大好,收拾收拾大家11點就上床呼呼大睡.<br><br>早上起來悠閒的繼續吃完quiche+優格配新鮮草莓當早餐.偉恩北北&amp;吉伯北北各抱了好幾瓶香檳紅酒白酒,我也提了一手啤酒,大家跳上黑北北的船,邊喝邊開往附近的水畔餐廳, </font><a href="http://www.tablesonline.com.au/restaurant/NSW/Roseville/Echo-on-the-Marina/index.html"><font color="#385376">Echo on the Marina</font></a><font color="#385376">, 繼續從中午吃吃喝喝到下午四五點才打道回府,連朋友找我看電影都忘了^^||||.整個餐廳沒半個亞洲人,我泡在一堆北北太太們中間,挺妙的吧~</font><br><br><img src="http://tw.blog.yahoo.com/photo/photo.php?id=iEb7x7yRAg6arpAdAkezufEM.p2D&amp;photo=tn_F23_20080902111143691.jpg"/><br><font color="#347d7e">從左到右 - 金髮美女,愛緊張的海倫太太,黑太太,胖嘟嘟的黑北北,也不瘦的偉恩北北,比較起來很小隻的我&amp;沒頭髮的吉伯北北 <br><br></font><font color="#385376"><img src="http://tw.blog.yahoo.com/photo/photo.php?id=iEb7x7yRAg6arpAdAkezufEM.p2D&amp;photo=tn_F23_20080913090656198.jpg"/><br><font color="#347d7e">附張吉井隆一桑的照片...每次我爹娘來都一定會去吃...我娘覺得他很帥喔...歡迎大家有機會來澳洲時也可以去光顧...</font><br><br><br>- by Anita</font></p>]]></description>
            <pubDate>Tue, 02 Sep 2008 11:21:24 CST</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[殺千刀]]></title>
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            <description><![CDATA[<p>兒子看金庸的 &quot;碧血劍&quot;, 讀到袁崇煥明知崇禎皇帝的昏庸多疑, 但仍自許為 &quot;大明國裡一個亡命之徒&quot;,&nbsp;剛強俠烈地盡忠衛國,&nbsp;到頭來卻落得 &quot;千刀萬剮&quot; 之刑.&nbsp;看完後他還上網查詢 &quot;凌遲&quot;, 千刀萬剮或殺千刀這種殘酷刑法, 並發表意見認為 : 袁崇煥何等愚蠢, 不如乾脆像部將祖大壽投降來的識時務.</p>
<p>我斟酌了半天, 還是忍不住用我 &quot;石器時代&quot; 的思維教訓了兒子一頓 : 在君要臣死, 臣不得不死的年代理, 袁崇煥並非不知自身命運如何, 但是道德操守更勝貪生怕死呀! 兒子頂了一句 : 在上位者要貪, 下屬難道都得替他們把風嗎? 迂腐至極! </p>
<p>我原本想多教訓教訓他, 但是想一想全國最大情資系統的領導人不以人民的托付為己任, 反而為在上位者隱匿犯罪情事, 我的八股觀念是否真的合時宜呢?</p>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 29 Aug 2008 14:54:41 CST</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Anti-social mobility?]]></title>
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            <description><![CDATA[<p>在澳洲一項針對十歲到七十八歲兩千多名消費者的調查中, 發現了許多有趣的事實,&nbsp;台灣以及世界各地似乎也有著類似的現象. &quot;The findings are based on a survey of 2097 consumers aged 10 to 78 on behalf of (代表) the Australian Interactive (互動的) Media Industry&nbsp;Association, whose members include Google,&nbsp;ninemsn, Sensis and Yahoo.</p>
<p>首先,&nbsp;無論何地何時都能看到人手一機&nbsp;: &quot;People are spending more time with their mobile phones than ever before and it&#39;s eating into (侵入, 腐蝕) personal lives.&quot; 除了基本的通話功能以外, 不斷增長的新功能與新內容, 讓手機使用者對小小一支電話 &quot;愛不釋手&quot;. &quot;The growing amount of content (內容) available on mobiles is one factor increasing the time people spend with their phones.&quot;</p>
<p>但是, 究竟哪些資訊是使用者的最愛呢? 如果你擔心道德淪喪, 這項調查結果也頗能讓人莞爾. &quot;If you fear, however, that social standard are slipping, the reality is that when it comes to (說到, 提及到) consuming mobile porn (色情), Australia is a nation of prudes (潔癖又過於拘謹的人, 不過這個字隱含 &#39;假猩猩&#39; 之意).&quot; </p>
<p>大多數人仍然比較 &quot;陽光&quot;, 用手機看新聞, 氣象, 運動或是地圖啦! &quot;News, weather, sports and maps have been the most common information services used in the past year, followed by movie information, astrology (占星), restaurant reviews, TV listings and financial information. Less popular but growing rapidly are comedy, adult and dating services.&quot; 最後一句又讓人不禁擔心了起來.</p>]]></description>
            <pubDate>Fri, 22 Aug 2008 17:20:50 CST</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Karma.com]]></title>
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            <description><![CDATA[<p>&quot;karma&quot; 源自梵文 &quot;行為&quot; 之意, 佛教或印度教的 &quot;業&quot; &quot;因緣&quot;. 前不久, 美國女星沙朗史東被問及四川震災時, 脫口用了這個字當作 &quot;報應&quot; . 姑且不論她用得對錯居心如何, 這個字現在倒是大大地流行了起來!</p>
<p>報上有篇文章的標題就叫做 &quot;Karma.com&quot;, 文中談到現代男女分手後, 尤其是對始亂終棄的負心漢, 如果滿心怨毒無處申訴, 只要按幾下滑鼠, 把他的個人資料和惡行放在 <a href="http://www.dontdatehimgirl.com">www.dontdatehimgirl.com</a> 之上, 就可讓他得到 &quot;現世報&quot;, 這似乎是天下傷心女子的天堂 (The site is a haven for broken-hearted ladies)!?</p>
<p>&quot;And during the anger stage of breakup, I took comfort in fantasizing about all&nbsp;the ways I could exact my revenge (報復, 報仇). But then I remembered that I didn&#39;t really have to work that hard. I could get back at him just a few keystrokes by putting his profile (人物簡介) on <a href="http://www.dontdatehimgirl.com">www.dontdatehimgirl.com</a>.&quot;</p>
<p>聽起來似乎的確有了個發洩管道, 但是傷害曾經傷害你的人, 並不會讓你自身的傷害比較少呀! &quot;Hurting the person who hurt you can&#39;t be good karma, and it doesn&#39;t make you hurt any less.&quot;</p>]]></description>
            <pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 16:35:19 CST</pubDate>
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